Category: Relationships

Five Magic Words: A Personal Grief Journey

I have been a silent blogger for weeks. Because I have been praying over this little project of mine which is finally ready to meet the world. This journey is never ending and I know this book is …

Thanksgiving 2020

It’s early on this Thanksgiving morning. The boys are arriving at the woods for the annual pheasant hunt. My mom is probably rolling out of bed with a million things on her to-do list. I’m already 2 cups …

28 years

So many things have happened. 28 years of marriage today. Official empty nesters. Grandchildren. 2020. Let the weirdness of life move forward. Reflecting over coffee this morning, I realized there is no way to properly or accurately count …

Marriage and Truth

Here is the truth about marriage. You are either committed, or you are not. There is no middle of the road. Marriage is a relationship which requires consistent maintenance and work. There will be disagreements. There may be …

Contributing to the Narrative

I haven’t said a lot about the many issues which have already happened in 2020. I have been mostly silent because I simply don’t know what to say. Contributing to the narrative seems to get you into trouble. …

Where I Stand

It seems everywhere we turn, someone wants to know where we stand. Rich Mullins wrote a song called “If I Stand“, and for me it conveys where I stand perfectly. Sometimes, it can be unnerving to explain your …

Marriage Therapy: Creating an Outdoor Space

This project took more planning than I am capable of. It’s a good thing my husband is so awesome. We wanted to build a pergola behind our house for years. We did it this spring, and I love …

Marriage: In The Beginning

Genesis 2:18, God decided man was no good alone, so He created woman. The God of the universe chose to create a helper for His prize creation- man.  Eve could’ve been created out of dust as Adam had …

A Mimi’s Heart

The holidays are a time of joy and wonder. I love to see my grandchildren laughing and playing over winter break. No school for us means shenanigans at Mimi’s house. We have playdough made with peppermint oil. We …

Letter to Friends of the Grieving

Letter to Friends of the Grieving. Dear Friends, How are you today? I am holding my own. This morning I woke up and showered. I managed to fill my day with a to-do list which keeps me busy. …